THE POWER OF NO

Have you ever questioned the essentials and necessity of saying no. What does it take to take a stand and say no with firmness and absoluteness. Not only does it have power it also reflects the ability and purpose to close a conversation and or end a debate.

Quibbling over this or that ceases and a purpose of thought begins and further the relationship of interaction. Interaction is allowed to proceed forward without a hitch or bump that usually means altercation of conversation that signifies a withdrawal of permission to continue but still the possibility continues for it is not only another form of empowerment it is indeed the emphasis of the power of no and it continues on as a soldier in war.

Never be sorry that a requests has to be turned down and used as a rebuttal of refusal it is only natural that a stance has been placed and will be administered with strictness and fairness. Also, not only can “no” be positive it can also open up the channels of further conversation, interest, intrigue, mystery and end ambiguity.

In essentiality “no” is sometimes an encourager and not necessarily a negative but in fact it is sometimes a median for common ground to be established during debative conversation.

If debative conversation occurs it is a platform for continuous conversation regarding not one subject but indeed a conjunctive connection to establish that a “no” is not finis but a beginning over and over that is not finite but conclusive in its not entirety.

By

Felicia McCaw